Is it poor manners to register somewhere like Walmart for baby gifts for a shower?

no not at all.. walmart has cool baby things.

It’s fine to register at Wal-mart. Just don’t expect people to get you the exact thing you asked for (happened to me). You will need tons of diapers, wipes, onesies t-shirts, baby shampoo, baby soap, lotion, blankets, washclothes, washing detergent, burp cloths and bibs.

It is what you should do so you don’t end up with 18 teddy bears and all 0-3 month clothes. Its so hard to exchange things at 9 months pregnant. Have your shower between 8-9 months. Belly is cute and you aren’t miserable yet.

I don’t think it is poor manners, but I think you can find a better place that Walmart to register.

Alright…first off no it is not poor manners to register somewhere. I dont know how many times i have been invited to a baby shower and have had no clue what else others are bringing.
I had a baby shower for my son after he was born because then everyone can see the little cutie and know approx what size he/she will be. It is totally up to you when you want to have your shower.

just go with the flow if u get doubles of things most shops will let u change it for something else normally before is best that way u can just sit back and enjoy it without a baby to run round after

Registering at Walmart is fine! I was going to have mine before…but then my son was early so it was after…depends on when you’re due. because if its when illnesses are high…before because newborns are very susceptible to getting sick… the things I didnt get were diapers mostly…depends on how many people you invite and if you have any special raffle things…

that is where im gonna register…and i did at kmart too b.c the pooh stuff at walmart i got all the car seats and strollers and the big things and at kmart they had the matching diaper bags and all…good luck and congrats..

I think its a great idea to register. Otherwise you might be stuck with multiples of the same item. I had my baby showers before my kids were born, because I knew what I was having. That way I got everything I needed for them before they came. I also had a little get together after my kids were born that way everyone knew who they bought stuff for.

you should definitely register for the baby as soon as you can othrwise you will get a lot of stuff you don’t like or need and some of it you just get stuck with because you don’t know where to return it

no, why would it be? and ur shower should be before the baby is born.

Well, I’m not sure if it’s really poor manners. But where ever you go- I wouldn’t suggest wal-mart

It is not at all rude to have a baby registry. Lots of places do this now like Babies “R” Us, Walmart, and Sears. These are just a couple. It’s a great idea. Ever had to go to a baby shower? Some people just don’t know what to buy. Registeries are a great choice.

As for when you should have your shower. That all depends on you. Are you set for your little girlie to arrive? Do you need certain things before she arrives? A baby shower could be way to introduce the baby to your family and friends or it can be a way to prepare for baby. Either way it’s an exciting and fun time in a new mother’s life!

Good Luck and Congratulations!

No - it isn’t rude at all - it is a great idea, I wish I wouldhave done that so I wouldn’t have ended up with 50 million of the same thing! Okay things I loved that my son has - Diaper genie, lots of PJ’s, burp clothes, booger suckers, nail clippers, recieving blankets, hats, thermometer, if you are having a boy and circumsizing him - guaz and A&D ointment, rubbing alcholol for the beely button, infant q-tips, a baby bathtub, and you can never have too many clothes and diapers =)

Have one before she is born.And its not poor manners to register ,but you need to say where you have registered on your invitations.Most people will be relieved because it helps them get you what you need.

TECHNICALLY, registering at all is an etiquette no-no if you ask Miss Manners, but if you choose to register (as most people do, it’s socially acceptable now, even if it is against traditional etiquette), Wal-Mart is more than OK, as long as you are actually registering for things that the baby will need (clothes, bottles, toys, furniture, etc.). Usually it is done before the shower, which shoudl be before the baby is born, but lots of people have them after the baby is born, especially if the baby is early. Congrats and good luck!

However, you are not throwing this shower for yourself are you? It is NEVER ok for the mom-to-be (or even bride-to-be) to throw their own shower. A friend or relative or even a co-worker should be doing it for you, that way, it is a party given in your honor, rather than a demand for gifts.

No way!! I registered there, and I think some of my less fortunate family members appreciated the price! They have some really fun stuff there for a great price. And it’s reallllly easy to register, just go to the gift registry by the jewelry counter, and they give u a canner and u pick what you want. also have it about a month to a month and a half before the baby, it gives you time to get the room together with what you get, and go through things to make sure it’s all you want. I had mine on a saturday (a month before i was due) and ended up having him the thursday after! I had no time for anything. so just don’t stress too much and have fun!

Nothing is wrong with it..walmart has adorable baby clothes and nice strollers etc. I think its better and funner to have one before the baby is born,then u have all this stuff u can look at while preparing for the birth of the baby..It also comes in handy for when the baby comes home..u may get a car seat which is what u need,onesies a must,socks/booties,hats/caps/bottles,wipes,diapers etc. these are all things that are good to have before baby arrives..Register and have fun with it..Good Luck!

I registered at babies r us and walmart. It is definately not rude. It lets people know what yoy actually need so you don’t get things you don’t need. I had my shower Sep 30th and my son was born Nov 12th. I think it weas good to have before because after the baby is born you are very busy with the baby. You will need lots of diapers and wipes, plus Mylicon is great to have incase the baby gets gas. Also thermometer.

no it is not and it may get you a lot more for the baby as if you would go to a more expensive baby store i personally rather buy a lot of little things plus diapers and wipes the to buy 1 expensive item

Why not? If they have things that you will use for the baby, why shouldn’t you register there? Besides, you will probably invite people of all economic levels to your shower, so you want to have options for those who may not be able to afford shopping at Baby Gap, Nordstroms or Neiman Marcus. If you want gender-specific clothing you’ll have to have a sonogram to know the sex, or wait til the baby is born. Traditionally, showers are given before the baby is born, but parents are having all kinds of different showers depending on their lifestyle and situation.